Prayers coming from Florida and a big Hug for you...
Not your fault, If she's so anxious to have you near, she can move closer to you. Of course, it sounds like then it would be all your fault if she was unhappy with her new job, new apartment, etc etc etc.
If you have the emotional support you need where you live, stick to your guns and don't allow her to bully you into doing something and living somewhere you don't want to with no other support other than her lackluster offering.
God Bless and prayers sent for you and your husband.
Prayers are on their way!
Prayers are on their way!
Sending prayers your way for you both, together with lots of love and hugs. xxxx
I will be praying for you and your family.
I'm sorry for your troubles. I will say a prayer for you and your family.
Praying for you! Please get help from the discharge planner at the hospital so he is not sent directly home, but goes to rehab after surgery. It is easy for family to blame-my husband left the house when I was asleep, fell and broke many bones-but it was my fault. It is not easy-
Sending prayers love and hugs Charlotte
Trying to Mo e now would be the worst thing for your DH. Fortunate1 was spot on.
Care givers have a tremendous job to do. I pray for them every day. There's no one answer to helping them just as there's no one answer to help the one they're caring for. At least you have a little time for yourself right now while he's in treatment.
I’m so sorry to hear of your husband’s health situation. I will say prayers for him and you and add him to my prayer list.
Prayers for all of you. Hopefully surgery has good out come. I second the votes for seeing if you are able to get help once DH is released. You will need it! And while DD means well in wanting you to move closer to her, if she works and also has a family to take care of, how much is she actually going to be able to help you? Also of concern to me is the fact that you have friends where you are, and know nobody there except her. That in itself will make you more isolated then a care giver already ends up being. And big concern to move DH to someplace totally strange. A lot of Alzheimer patients can not take change, and will go rapidly down hill with major upheaval in their lives. just the surgery and the anesthesia and being in hospital for how ever many days, etc. is liable to create issues with him. So, extra prayers for you, and a hug too!
OOh Charlotte, prayers and healing energy for you and your husband. If I can be any help pm me as I am not to far away.
Will be praying for your situation. Is there no equivalent to our social services over there. They did loads for me when I became disabled. A support charity that gives advise as to the best way forward from others who have or are going through similar problems.