A Winter Friend ... ...
This is just a beautifully written piece; and so true.
Take a couple of minutes to read it.
You'll be glad you did.
A WINTER FRIEND
This article is so befitting for all of us... take time to ponder... the last statement cannot be refuted:
I FIRST STARTED READING THIS EMAIL AND WAS READING FAST UNTIL I REACHED THE THIRD SENTENCE. I STOPPED THEN AND STARTED OVER, READING SLOWER, AND THINKING ABOUT EVERY WORD... IT MAKES YOU STOP AND THINK. ... ... ... ... ~ So, please ~ READ SLOWLY! ~
AND THEN IT IS WINTER
You know time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years. It seems like yesterday that I was young, just married, and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all those years went.
I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams. But, here it is... the winter of my life, and it catches me by surprise... How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go? I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those "older people" were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.
But, here it is... my friends are retired and getting grey... they move slower and I see an older person in myself now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me... but, I see the great change... Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant... but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be.
Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!
And so... now I enter this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last... this I know, that when it's over on this earth... it's over. A new adventure will begin!
Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done... things I should have done, but indeed, there are also many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.
So, if you're not in your winter yet... let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life, please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!! Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can TODAY, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not!
You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life... so, LIVE FOR TODAY and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember..
"Life" is a GIFT to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one.
Remember: "It is Health that is real Wealth and not pieces of gold and silver."
~ Your kids are becoming you ... ... but your grandchildren are perfect!
~ Going out is good.. coming home is even better!
~ You forget names... but it's OK, because other people forgot they even knew you!!!
~ You realize you're never going to be really good at anything ... ... especially golf.
~ The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really do care that you don't care to do them anymore.
~ You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed. It's called "pre-sleep."
~ You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch..
~ You tend to use more 4 letter words ... "what?"..."when?"...???
~ Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere.
~ You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless?!"
~ What used to be freckles are now liver spots.
~ Everybody whispers.
~ You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet.... 2 of which you will never wear.
~ But "Old" is good in some things:
Old Songs, Old movies ...
and best of all, … …
our dear … ... OLD FRIENDS!!
Stay well, "OLD FRIEND!"
Send this on to other "Old Friends" and let them laugh in agreement!
Along with many others on KP, I thank you for sharing this.
Thank you for sharing. I recognize myself in there.
Oh my! I love my winter years (though not so much ny body...lol).
Thank you for this. It is just lovely and reaches into my soul!
Thank you for this article,- it has a 'lot' of truth in it !.. I am old also, but I have a wonderful dog for company and a very good church with very nice people ! I feel blessed with what I have !..
Wonderful read and oh so true.
I will 100 in a couple of months. There was so much truth in your words. I say to people, everything has gone except my brain. But that does not include memory for names. I go blank on those often. My last "old" friend died a few months ago. I have outlived the rest. I have always taken pride in my good hearing. No more. Even that is starting to fade. I look around at my neighbors and think, I am old enough to be their mother. Or grandmother.
I am thankful for the abilities I still have. I live alone and manage personal hygiene but have someone come in and do things around the house such as cleaning, some cooking, laundry.
Happy 100th Birthday to you....it's real soon! I know I'm a bit early!
Like many of you I’m in the winter of my life. And like the writer I also regret so,Emory the things I done, I’m sorry for all those things I have not accomplished, I still have my eyesight, my hearing and my brain. For how long, I don’t know, but what I do know is that I have lived long, some was good, some not so, but I survived everything thrown my way. And even with the pains, walking much slower and needing help with the house chores, I’m very thankful to God for my life, my family and my friends. An you KP’rs are my friends.
Like many of you I’m in the winter of my life. And like the writer I also regret some of the things I have done, I’m sorry for all those things I have not accomplished, I still have my eyesight, my hearing and my brain. For how long, I don’t know, but what I do know is that I have lived long, some was good, some not so, but I survived everything thrown my way. And even with the pains, walking much slower and needing help with the house chores, I’m very thankful to God for my life, my family and my friends. An you KP’rs are my friends.
Thank you so much for your post. Nan
Joy Marshall wrote:
I will 100 in a couple of months. There was so m... (
God bless you Joy Marshall! What a remarkable life you must have-to be here long enough to have lived an entire century! Wow, that is truly wonderful! Happy Birthday in advance Joy!
Well that sums it up !!
Winter, I am here.
And I have tears- remembering all the things I wish I had done, regretting some of the things I have done,
Sort of puts things in perspective doesn't it ?
To my WINTER KP friends, lets hang on as best we can and support each other
HUGS for all